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Is this a good start for my crime-action story? I spent last May in New York City shooting an indie film with sketch comedy group Olde English. It was one of the best experiences of my life, but it definitely came with some hardships.
One night, after a fifteen-hour shoot and an hour of complaints from my girlfriend (im a lesbian) at the time, I decided I'd go for a walk to clear my mind. I was living in Brooklyn and although crime rates had drastically dropped thanks to Giuliani, Brooklyn is still no walk in the park at night.
Actually, you probably shouldn't walk in the park at night.
On my midnight stroll I came upon a governmental housing project that took up an entire city block. It was past midnight and the dark structure ominously loomed over me. It strangely had a walkway that ran diagonally through the complex (a hypotenuse, if you will) and I foolishly decided that I'd walk through it. I'd been having a terrible day and proving to myself that I was brave enough to do this was the only thing that would cheer me up.
As soon as I enter the complex, I immediately regret this decision. I see a few groups of black guys lurking in the shadows and hear some snickers and a couple "sexy" comments but I keep walking. My heart starts to beat a bit faster as I realize the pathway is much longer than I expected, like that stairway shot in Vertigo.
As I make it past the incessant whistling, I can see a light shimmering from the opposite side. I'm almost home free! But about fifty feet away from safety, a black guy moves in front of the exit, walking towards me.
This dude is at least 6'2" and is black. He's wearing an XL hoodie and a flat-billed Yankees cap. As a scrawny white girl, I didn't want to make any overly racist gestures like turning around and sprinting for dear life, so I kept walking towards this *****, hoping that he was a jolly black giant.
He was not.
When I get about 20 feet away from him, he stops. My heart starts pounding. This is how I'm going to lose my virginity, I think. But again, not wanting to display any signs of racism, I keep walking. I glance behind me and see a group of guys following me. Yup, this is how I'm going to lose my virginity.
I try to avert eye contact, but I can feel his eyes on my ***. About 5 feet from the ***** I glance up and we lock eyes. He's the scariest dude I've seen in my life. His face is covered in scars and tattoos and you can see his muscles through his hoodie. YOU CAN SEE HIS MUSCLES THROUGH HIS HOODIE!!!
My heart is jumping out of my chest. My eyes dart, searching for any kind of escape but I'm surrounded by walls. The only ways out are through the 10 guys behind me or this monster of a man in front of me. I start pulling up my skirt, just to make the process easier.
As I come within arm's distance of him, I prepare myself for the worst. He looks at my breasts, and says "Evening."
I can barely breathe. I nod and try to run past him, safely out of the projects. But he grabs me buy the hair and pushes me against the wall! I close my eyes as I feel his hands down my panties, fingering my vagina. I open my eyes and realise its not him but my girlfriend fingering me! I see the ****** back away ''dirty hookers'' ''probably have cocks anyway'' I hear them mutter.
And that, my friend, is how sex saved my life. | is this real life? not sure if srs...
things happen too quickly, no attention to detail
mentions things then doesn't expand, why are they mentioned at all?
I think it's trying to be funny, but the initial shock will make it difficult for people to enjoy
and it sounds racist as sh*t, just saying. | Becoming a woman for my lesbian wife? An update for those who answered my question last week about becoming a woman for my lesbian wife.
I spoke to her about my concerns but agreed to spend the past several days living as a woman and found that it was easier than I thought. The problem is that my wife informed me that she now wishes for me to get breast implants, take hormones and consider facial surgery to make me look more female. I do not want to lose her and will do the things she asks but can anyone tell me about the possible side effects of these actions. She is a wonderful woman but my concern is that even though I am becoming her life sized barbiedoll to keep her that she will leave me nonetheless.
What should I do? | Assuming this question is real;
You cannot become a woman to satisfy your lesbian wife. Firstly because it's a very long-winded process changing your gender and you have to go through a months therapy and assessments before they'll even consider you for hormone replacement, let alone gender reassignment surgery. If in yourself you feel as though being male is your correct gender, you are very unlikely to fool them.
Secondly, how happy is this going to make you? If you don't feel there is a discordance between your physical gender and your mental gender (for lack of a better word) you're going to be unhappy (i.e. if you that it is right for you to be a man, then your going to be unhappy living as a real woman). Think about the high suicide rate amongst transsexuals; being in the wrong body obviously isn't a pleasant experience.
What happens if you and your wife eventually split up? What are you going to do then? Reverse the procedure? (Which could potentially set you back thousands) Or would you stick as a woman-and try explaining that to any future girlfriends. This will probably ruin your life-and I don't think I'm exaggerating. In fact it could ruin your wife's life too-imagine the guilt she's going to feel if one day down the line she realises your marriage isn't working-she's not going to be able to leave you because of all you've done for her. You'll be stuck in a sham, unhappy marriage-but then again, I guess you already are.
I guess this is cliché' but-if you love your wife, leave her. She's a lesbian. Nothing's going to change that. Let her be with real woman, the sooner the better; so you can both move on with your lives.
Another thing I'd suggest is some form of counselling/therapy for the two of you; it might help you deal with the whole thing. | Why am I so reluctant to come out as a lesbian? Please bear with me, this is long, but I need advice. I'm sixteen, by the way.
Ever since late elementary school, I've been infatuated with females, specifically older women. These women range in age, but have usually always been between the ages of 25 and 40.
It was only last year, though, that I really felt as though I was "in love" with one of my teachers, and I started to realize that everything before that had been very innocent. None of it was anything to compared to my feelings for the woman I met my sophomore year, who is now a good friend of mine. Despite our becoming friends, I still get nervous around her at times because of her beauty and charm, but in all honesty she is one of the greatest people I have ever met in my life. I've never met someone so free and open. I'm not guyding when I say she doesn't even act like a teacher, yet still maintains the same guidance over her class as someone more conforming to the traditional teacher role.
Ever since the second day of school last year I felt drawn to her: first to her looks, because she was so naturally beautiful without makeup, and very soon after her personality. You might think it was lust, and at first it might've been, but what really made me love her was her attitude toward the world and to others. I can't even describe it, but if you met her, you'd know. Her spirit is contagious, and every time I'm near her I feel so enlightened by her. When I see her in the hallways my stomach turns cold with pleasure and nervousness, and at times I'm so taken by her that I don't know what to say or how to act. She's always understood, though, and loved me for who I am, and part of me wonders if she's always known how I've felt about her. No doubt I've made it obvious enough. When school ended last year, I remember sobbing because she wouldn't be my teacher anymore and I loved her so much. It's all turned out for the best, because now she and I are friends and can talk about anything with each other, but I'm almost embarrassed to remember how depressed I was over the summer. I felt deprived of a life source, a light in my life. I wrote furious things in my journal and cried many days, empty and broken inside.
People like this are never just "good role models" in my life. I didn't see her as just a friend, or just a maternal figure; I had this yearning to be with her, and to love her as a lover would. It was the most intense feeling I ever had in my life. Sometimes I thought it was evident in my actions, as I am more physical with her than with other people (she is too). Whenever we hug or touch in some way I never want the feeling to end, and later I recreate the situation in my head for pleasure. It sort of shames me to say this, but I've imagined her naked more times than is appropriate. She has the most beautiful body I've ever seen, but she's modest about it, and I've thought about how much I'd want to have sex with her if I could. Obviously that's an impossibility, I'm well-aware, and anyway, she's been happily married for five years. That doesn't stop me from wishing I could have her, though, or someone else older than me like her. I've been planning on talking to her about this, because she'll listen, but it's hard because of confusion.
In a more general sense, I'm extremely attracted to the female body, particularly breasts, and I'm actually repulsed by the idea of having sex with men. I don't think I've ever had a male crush in my life, though I used to force myself to say that a certain boy was "cute" just because everyone else around me seemed attracted. Whenever my friends talk about "hot" guys, I get uncomfortable and never have an answer when they ask who I like. I've also always been attracted to female figures in media and never males, though this is more physical/sexual attraction than emotional. And for a while I liked the idea of having a boyfriend, but now I realize that it was never something I really wanted, just something that was forced on me. I only ever fantasize about women.
But even knowing all of that about myself, and experiencing such passionate and desperate feelings, I still feel so confused about all of this. I think that's normal, but I still don't know what to do about it. Part of me can't wait to get to college so I can scope out the older women, because everyone in my school is so immature. Though everything points to my being a lesbian, I would feel strange embracing it because of the negativity around me. It feels like if I came out I'd be eliminating all other options, which is maybe what I want, but I don't know! Does it sound as though I'm gay? Only I can know, but why am I being like this? Why am I so confused about my feelings and what I want? Any advice is welcome! Thank you. | If I had to base my response off of what you have just told me I would say that you are indeed a lesbian.
But you need to know there isn't anything wrong with that. you are perfectly normal. we are all human beings, and how you feel about another human being is all that matters. gender, race, ethnicity, none of that matters. all that matters is how you feel about that person. be proud of who you are and don't allow others opinion of you become your opinion of yourself.
People will talk, so what?
If they find you being who you are and being proud to stand up and say you are who you are as a negative thing, then they are the ones with the problem. NOT YOU. At some point you have to muster the inner strength to say "THIS IS ME AND I DON'T CARE WHAT THE WORLD THINKS OF ME, I AM WHO I AM AND THAT MAY NOT BE ENOUGH FOR YOU BUT ITS ENOUGH FOR ME.."
and thats all that matters:)
listen to your mind, then listen to your heart. and in this case, let your heart give the final say as to whether you are lesbian or not because in the end it is about how YOU feel.
good luck♥x
-denmark | Why does Every Male I date Think i'm Truly a Lesbian!!!!I Love Women Strip Clubs? I went out with my ex and his 3 male friends. We went to a strip club to see women. I was drunk and on the ride home i was sitting next to his friend. My ex was in the front (it was my car but i was too drunk to drive) His friend is so sexy I have to admit but I will never go there. I felt his hands on my side as if he was holding me.. I started feeling on him as well (it was very dark so I don't know if it was noticable. I don't know how we started fondeling one another it was crazy and out of my character. My ex called and told me he saw my true colors. in the strip club I was having a ball and flirting innocently with the female strippers. (I slapped a few behinds and grabbed a couple of breasts lol and the women just love to see another woman show them love with no jealousy I am STRAIGHT by the way) anyway should I apologize to my ex (this same ex cheated on me which is why i left him but we are still friends and he thinks he still has a right to my actions) Do u know any women who would prefer seeing females strip...I hate male strippers it's kinda gay of them to be shaking their *** around | | lol kinda gay of them haha that's funny.. No i dnt think u should apologize to him you should of ****** his friend and told him every detail over the phone hahaha. He is a player and you are single women do what you want you don't have to explain yourself to no one wtf | Is it true what they say about Barbie(doll)? IS BARBIE LESBIAN?
Mattel to sue over lesbian Barbie show
Toy manufacturer Mattel is reportedly threatening to sue a Brazilian artist for portraying Barbie as a lesbian.
Karin Schwarz's exhibition features pictures of Barbie in compromising situations, reports the Jornal de Sao Paulo newspaper.
Mattel has given the artist 24 hours to close down the exhibiton or they say they will take legal action.
But Ms Schwarz says she will not back down: "Barbie is exploited by Mattel. She wears a bikini, she shows off her belly, has big breasts, and even has a boyfriend," she said.
The exhibition, entitled Amazing Girls, is on show at a bar in the city of Curitiba.
A Mattel spokesperson said: "Barbie is a very proper lady and she is not happy about being portraited as something that she isn't.
"We are going to sue and we hope that this teaches people a lesson. Also, Barbie is 46 years old, she should be respected!"
www.ananova.com/news/story/sm_196… | | barbie is a bi*ch she's sleeps around with everything doll out there | Such thing as Too Hot? Ok, there is this EMO Guy who is so hot, every girl hits on him. He can't go any where with out getting some peace. He'll be on the bus, stretched out taking a snooze, and he'll open his eyes to 3 girls sitting with him. He comes out of the bathroom with girls staring at him. He hangs with his best friends at the school dances, and he'll have about 20 girls around him(good looking ones as well, and no, I'm not a lesbian, but I can tell). He's not gay, because there is this one girl that he's had a crush on for 8 years, since Grade 2. I over heard him talking to his best friend, and he talks about how it depresses him. I've nevr seen him blush around girl (Except for that one time he got an erection from the girls pileing on top of him, and he got some "breast in face" action) but when the girl he likes talks to him, you can see him getting nervous. Anyway the point I'm making is that he, in our school of 3000 can't get anywhere with out attention.Is that 2 much for a 15y year old guy to deal with? | | Not to talk down to you, but it's contradicting. He dresses Emo to get attention.. the whole idea is that he wants to be "different" which he will find out later in life he's actually being a sheep instead of being different. So no it's not too much.. he does it for attention.. if he didn't want it he would just be himself instead of trying to fit into a fad. | Are male privates undervalued? Allright. First about female genitalia; most men appreciate it aesthetically and sexually. Men recognize that not all are equal but it seems to me few men are willing to badmouth or show indifference towards female genitalia. A lot of men like looking at close-ups, of both the inner and outer bits. I've known at least one man who claimed that he found female genitalia disgusting but still proceeded to look at lesbian porn on the basis that it allows him to see two at a time.
Now as for women, there is arguably a little bit more variation regarding what women SAY about penises than what men say about female genitalia. Regardless, it seems there is a good argument for saying the majority of women are somewhat fascinated by it earlier or later and sometimes seem to have a deep yearning for the member which exceeds the male yearning for the female body (libido differences nowithstanding).
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As for the male testes/scrotum, although it is a very visually obvious part and large in volume (roughly quarter of a kg, the difference between men's and boys' discus) it is often visualized as a kind of an afterthought. Guyren are taught about boys having penises which ignores a big portion of male genitalia although it's understandable in the sense that the male member is the primary organ of action. When it comes to a female, people tend to address the whole 'package' collectively in one word, even if the terminology is anatomically suspect.
What I have noticed is a lot of women seem to put down men's testicles, sometimes very strongly. The cited reasons may be aesthetic,mysterious (not otherwise stated), perhaps something to do with motion (the dangle which is really dependent on enviromental factors, and this complaint could well be thrown against mammary glands as well) or occasionally the perceived uselesness of the organ(s) in satisfying a woman. The latter reason is understandable. However, it begs the question of whether a man could/should ignore a woman's vulva (including the clitoris) or perhaps breasts (although men can have breasts as well, women's breasts have become eroticized culturally to the point where they nearly scratch the status of being assigned the sacredness of genital organs) on the basis that it does not provide him with pleasure, is not 'functional' or whatever. I think a few of the women who don't think much of men's gonads (and the associated equipment) might be offended to hear such a view being voiced. A man may not specifically ponder about the clitoris for example, but I think this is excused by the obvious fact that it is hardly visible and very small in volume. That said, I have never heard of a man who harbored a dislike of the organ. | | i value all parts of my boyfriend's genitalia, multiple times i day. i don't neglect the boys! as a whole i find both twig and berries very appealing. hee hee. | Am I bi, straight, or bi-curious? Or am I confused? Im a 13 year old girl. And for some weird reason boobs turn me on. O.o I dont just like seeing some random girls boobs and it doesnt turn me on but it does if they're jiggled a certain way with bra straps on purpose, and i like to see them being suked, kissed, licked, and gently nibbled. But not like wen a baby or anial or any mythical creature or alien does tat tats just wrong to me. But I don't think im a lesbian cuz I dont like pu*sy. In fact I dont think i like dick. And I cant imagine myself in a serious relationship with a girl cuz tats reallyyyy aakward and just blahhkk. And i've always wanted to be in a relationship with a guy and i dont currently have a crush. I have friends but i can never think of them like tat even if they jiggled they're breasts or anything cuz tats reallly discusting they're my god daym friends. And I've always have had crushes on guys and never girls.
I never just see some random girl walking and look at her boobs and get turned on it just doesn't work for some weird reason. And don't tell me to go and "experiment" with a girl cuz i have and i didnt get turned on. was it cuz she had no boobs? :/ and *** doesn't turn me on. and i i don't get turned on if i see 2 girls making out there's gotta be some boob action. and tat goes for guy on girl porn too.
anywayz boobs turn me on i like to see her nipples being sucked and i once had a dream tat i was squishing squeezing suking licking kissing and making out wit a girls breast and it felt good but i didnt do anything else to her in fact in my dream her face didnt even show.
I'd turn me on if a guy suked mine or if i made out wit him, and i have had an experience if u would count a dream as 1 i guess. am I bi? I honestly cannot look at ANY girl in this world and be like i wanna fu** her boobs. But boobs still turn me on like anything else? wtf? wats going on? i have tried a flat chested girl 2 times b4 and that was b4 my teens. like 1st grade. I know i fail at life but i dont get it!
do i need counceling? am i crazy?? wtf is wrong wit me??? | | I think you are bicurious but just not willing to admit it. | What do y'all think is the most sexiest part of a woman? I am a 24 yr old Lesbian and i Prefer Mature woman.
I think the most sexiest part of a woman hmmm its hard to pic i love their face in general,
{smiles that make you wanna kiss them}{eyes that make you burn inside with lust} & {physiques that take your breath away}
oh and i do love a nice medium size pair of Breasts and a cleavage to go with them MMMMM
MMM here is an example of what i am talking bout!!!
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What do y'all think!!! | bahahahaha john you are a tool. How does this girls attraction to women have anything to do with her needing a job or a direction in life. I think somebody who gets off on making hateful comments over the internet needs some direction. A boyfriend? What is finding a boyfriend going to do for her?
Oh and I'm a smile and boobs girl myself :) | Am I gay.............? I am a 21 year old boy from NY.
I am 5'9", weigh 136-140lbs.
I have many "features" or "stereotypes" that may seem gay. People have asked me if I was and i have always said no. These are some of the things about me:
1. My voice is naturally soft (high)
2. I like to dress nice (preppy and nice clothes) and I love to go shopping.
3. Sometimes my hands sway when I walk
4. I sometimes talk with my hands
5. I am very shy, yet creative and I like to draw, paint, make clay structures, etc.
6. I love to listen to music and my 80GB iPod. Some of my favorite singers: Michael Jackson, Lady Gaga, etc.
7. I absolutely love to watch movies and I enjoy new ones as much as classic ones. I like all types of new movies (ie. Angelina Jolie, Jodie Foster, drama, comedy, action/adventure, thriller) and classic movies and actresses from this era that are my favorite in this order: Joan Crawford (1905-77), Marilyn Monroe (1926-62), Bette Davis (1908-89), Elizabeth Taylor (1932-).
8. I love to watch TV. My favorite show is probably Gossip Girl. I also like to watch Will and Grace, The Wanda Sykes Show, The New Adventures of Old Christine, the L word, House, CSI, Martha Stewart, The Decorating Adventures of Ambrose Price, etc.
9. I like to drink. I hate beer/whiskey, etc., but I LOVE red and white wine, champagne, cognac, vodka, gin, sherry, tequila, anisette and other liquors.
10. I love to dance
11. I don't really have any friends, but I get along well with my parents and 2 sisters. I live at home still. I do odd jobs casually like leaf raking, snow shoveling, planting flowers, helping my parents cook, bake, decorate, plan stuff, adventures, etc. I plan to go to college in late 2010 i want to major in Business-Design/or Creative Arts (NYU maybe) for like Interior Design. My IQ is 107.
12. I am a very clean boy. My room is very nice and expensive French design furniture, very nice room interior, designer clothes, I own 26 pairs of shoes (not inc. other footwear), 5 colognes, 12 belts, 37 ties, and a ton of sweaters, shirts (XS-S), pants (w28-30/L30. I have over 15 designer coats and a lot of other clothes.
13. I always look great in my appearance, and I look at least 5 or 6 years younger than 21. I use gel or mousse to keep my hair looking nice and have styled my hair (usu, the faux hawk style) my skin is white, my complection is clear and I always get at least 9 hours of sleep each night.
15. I have taken, been on, abused and addicted to sedatives like Ativan (Lorezepam) a powerful sedative -(benzodiazepine) 4.5 mg for 2 yrs. and alcohol and always enjoy the high effect on the drugs, and the escape and I always would escape the unpleasant thoughts I have about myself. I now am over the sedative addiction and drink less and now more in touch with reality, but still escape occassionally by different means.
14. I have watched a lot of new movies with actresses like Megan Fox, Angelina Jolie, etc. and I think they are beautiful but I am not ever turned on or aroused or by any other women and I also watched pornographic movies on iO, but never got turned on by the girls and breasts, etc.
15. Whenever I have looked or seen cute, attractive boys my age, I am always usually turned on and aroused and when they are shirtless or naked I am extremely excited and aroused.
16. I have looked at pornography and sex movies with boys and I have got extremely aroused and excited and have masturbated and sometimes it took over 1 hour to reach orgassm, etc.
Based on everything written above, is there a way you could tell what my sexual orientation is? I am not sure if I am straight, bisexual, lesbian or gay? What do think my sexuality is? Am I gay? If so, why?
Please help me......................................… you. | Your sexuality is not based by how you act, whether you like to dance, whether or not you like to clean, whether you like watching movies and television, or anything like that. It's about your sexual attraction to the same gender as yourself. The only two that can really indicate to me whether or not you are gay are numbers fifteen and sixteen of what you listed. The thing is, though, that many boys aren't turned on by the stereotypically "beautiful" woman, but by other things. Everybody has their own preference, and some don't go with the stereotypical preference of a certain sexuality. The thing is this -- if you are turned on by boys, then you are gay. By what you listed in numbers fifteen and sixteen, you sound gay. I sometimes watch gay porn, with discretion, and am extremely aroused by what occurs in these videos. Before I came to terms with my sexuality, I did this as well, and was lying to myself by saying that I still had sexual attractions to females.
Ultimately, I cannot determine what your sexuality is for you -- you're old enough to know that you have to make this decision yourself, and the decision about whether or not you want to accept yourself for who you are. Far too many teenagers and young adults hide who they truly are, which is extremely unfortunate. Just let time do it's work -- everything will make sense soon.
All the best ♥ |
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